Japanese word

悔やむ

Pronunciation

Romajikuyamu

Meaning

  • verbregret

Example

あの言葉を言ったことを悔やみます。a no koto ba o i tta ko to o ku ya mi ma su

I regret saying those words.

Illustration for 悔やむ (regret)

More examples

彼はその機会を逃したことを悔やみました。kare wa so no ki kai o noga shi ta ko to o ku ya mi ma shi ta

He regretted missing the opportunity.

Core concept

It expresses a painful feeling that a past event should have been different, including sorrow over a loss.

Common phrases

  • 決断を悔やむketsu dan o ku ya mu

    regret a decision

  • 言動を悔やむgen dō o ku ya mu

    regret one's actions

  • 過ちを悔やむayama chi o ku ya mu

    regret a mistake

Similar words

後悔するkōkaisuru: To feel sorry about a past action or decision and wish it had been different.
惜しむoshimu: To feel sorrow about a loss or missed chance and wish it had not happened.
悼むitamu: To mourn a person who has died and express sorrow for the loss.

Definition in Japanese

過去のことを思い返し、そうしなければよかった、または失わなければよかったと悲しむ。ka ko no ko to o omo i kae shi sō shi na ke re ba yo ka tta ma ta wa ushina wa na ke re ba yo ka tta to kana shi mu

Word origin

悔やむ (kuyamu) developed from the native Japanese verb 悔ゆ (kuyu), meaning "to regret" or "to grieve"; the modern form retains both ideas of regret and sorrow.

Usage tips

  • In Japanese, 悔やむ (kuyamu) can describe regret about something a person did and grief about someone's death, giving the verb a wider range than regret alone.

Other meanings

  • lamentverb
  • mournverb

Opposites

Related words

  • 悔やみkuyamiregretnoun

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