Chinese phrase
我始终没想好该不该〜 wǒ shǐ zhōng méi xiǎng hǎo gāi bù gāi 〜
Meaning
I still can't decide whether to ___
When to use it
It means the speaker still has not decided what to do. It presents a choice that remains unsettled, often about a personal or important matter, and can sound thoughtful or hesitant.
Example dialogue
我始终没想好该不该把真实想法告诉父母。 wǒ shǐ zhōng méi xiǎng hǎo gāi bù gāi bǎ zhēn shí xiáng fǎ gào sù fù mǔ
I still can't decide whether to tell my parents how I really feel.
说出来也许会轻松一点，你想先说什么？ shuō chū lái yé xǔ huì qīng sōng yì diǎn nǐ xiǎng xiān shuō shén me
Saying it out loud might make you feel a little better. What do you want to talk about first?