Chinese phrase
别把〜牵扯进来 bié bǎ 〜 qiān chě jìn lái
Meaning
Don't involve ___ in this
When to use it
It asks that a person stay out of a matter or situation. It often protects someone from trouble, conflict, or an unpleasant burden, with a firm but caring tone.
Example dialogue
别把孩子牵扯进来，他们不应该承受这些。 bié bǎ hái zi qiān chě jìn lái tā men bù yīng gāi chéng shòu zhè xiē
Don't involve the kids in this; they shouldn't have to bear it.
你说得对，我不再把他们牵扯进来。 nǐ shuō de duì wǒ bú zài bǎ tā men qiān chě jìn lái
You're right. I won't involve them in this anymore.