Chinese phrase
别责怪自己 bié zé guài zì jǐ
Meaning
Don't blame yourself
When to use it
It tells someone not to blame themselves for a mistake. It is often used as gentle comfort after something goes wrong, especially between people who want to support each other.
Example dialogue
我把客户的资料弄丢了，真是太糟糕了。 wǒ bǎ kè hù de zī liào nòng diū le zhēn shì tài zāo gāo le
I lost the client's documents. This is really terrible.
别太自责，别责怪自己，明天我们一起想办法补救。 bié tài zì zé bié zé guài zì jǐ míng tiān wǒ men yì qǐ xiǎng bàn fǎ bǔ jiù
Don't blame yourself so much. Don't blame yourself. Tomorrow, we'll think of a way to make things right together.