Japanese word

見合い

Pronunciation

Romajimiai

Meaning

  • nounmatchmaking meeting

Example

友人は来月、見合いをします。yū jin wa rai getsu mi a i o shi ma su

My friend will have a matchmaking meeting next month.

Illustration for 見合い (matchmaking meeting)

More examples

両親に勧められた見合いで、彼は将来について率直に話しました。ryō shin ni susu me ra re ta mi a i de kare wa shō rai ni tsu i te sot choku ni hana shi ma shi ta

At the matchmaking meeting suggested by his parents, he spoke frankly about his future.

Core concept

Centers on a meeting where prospective marriage partners assess their compatibility with marriage in mind.

Common phrases

  • 見合いをするmi a i o su ru

    have a matchmaking meeting

  • 見合い相手mi a i ai te

    matchmaking partner

  • 見合い写真mi a i sha shin

    matchmaking photo

Definition in Japanese

結婚を前提に、本人同士が会って相性や結婚の意思を確かめる場。kek kon o zen tei ni hon nin dō shi ga a tte ai shō ya kek kon no i shi o tashi ka me ru ba

Word origin

The noun 見合い (miai) comes from the verb 見合う (miau), "to look at each other or compare," combining 見 (mi, "look") and 合う (au, "meet or fit together").

Usage tips

  • A miai differs from a blind date because marriage is stated as the purpose of the meeting, allowing the participants to discuss compatibility with that goal openly.

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