Japanese word

縁談

Pronunciation

Romajiendan

Meaning

  • nounmarriage proposal

Example

娘に縁談が来ました。musume ni en dan ga ki ma shi ta

A marriage proposal came for my daughter.

Illustration for 縁談 (marriage proposal)

More examples

姉はその縁談を丁寧に断りました。ane wa so no en dan o tei nei ni kotowa ri ma shi ta

My older sister politely turned down the marriage proposal.

Core concept

Describes a formal step toward marriage in which a proposal is made or the families discuss a possible match.

Common phrases

  • 縁談が来るen dan ga ku ru

    receive a marriage proposal

  • 縁談を受けるen dan o u ke ru

    accept a marriage proposal

  • 縁談を断るen dan o kotowa ru

    turn down a marriage proposal

Similar words

結婚話kekkonhanashi: A matter or proposal concerning a possible marriage.
求婚kyūkon: An act of asking a person to marry.

Definition in Japanese

結婚を前提とした話し合いや、その申し入れ。kek kon o zen tei to shi ta hana shi a i ya so no mō shi i re

Word origin

縁 (en, "connection") + 談 (dan, "talk") combines the ideas of a relationship and discussion to form a word for marriage-related talks or a proposal.

Usage tips

  • The word often appears in accounts of traditional matchmaking, where relatives or trusted acquaintances help introduce a possible marriage partner.

Other meanings

  • marriage talksnoun

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