Japanese word

恨み

Pronunciation

Romajiurami

Meaning

  • noungrudge

Example

彼はその人に強い恨みを抱いています。kare wa so no hito ni tsuyo i ura mi o ida i te i ma su

He bears a strong grudge against that person.

Illustration for 恨み (grudge)

More examples

誤解を解けば、相手への恨みも少しずつ消えていきます。go kai o to ke ba ai te e no ura mi mo suko shi zu tsu ki e te i ki ma su

If you clear up the misunderstanding, your resentment toward the other person will gradually fade.

Core concept

A past wrong remains emotionally active, keeping anger or hurt directed toward its source.

Common phrases

  • 恨みを晴らすura mi o ha ra su

    take revenge

  • 恨みを忘れるura mi o wasu re ru

    let go of a grudge

  • 恨みを買うura mi o ka u

    incur resentment

  • 恨みを抱くura mi o ida ku

    hold a grudge

  • 恨みを募らせるura mi o tsuno ra se ru

    deepen a grudge

Similar words

遺恨ikon: A lasting resentment caused by a past wrong, often left unresolved.
怨恨enkon: A deep and lasting resentment toward a person believed to have caused serious harm.
憎しみnikushimi: A strong feeling of hatred toward a person, which can arise without a specific past wrong.

Definition in Japanese

過去に受けた仕打ちを忘れられず、特定の相手に対して抱き続ける不快な感情。ka ko ni u ke ta shi u chi o wasu re ra re zu toku tei no ai te ni tai shi te ida ki tsuzu ke ru fu kai na kan jō

Word origin

恨み (urami) comes from 恨む (uramu, "to resent") through the noun-forming ending み (mi), naming the lasting feeling caused by resentment.

Usage tips

  • In English, grudge usually points to a particular person and wrong, while resentment can describe a broader or less personal feeling.

Other meanings

  • resentmentnoun
  • bitternessnoun

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