Japanese word

引き止める

Pronunciation

Romajihikitomeru

Meaning

  • verbkeep from leaving

Example

話を終えたくなくて、友達を引き止めました。hanashi o o e ta ku na ku te tomo dachi o hi ki to me ma shi ta

I did not want to end our conversation, so I kept my friend from leaving.

Illustration for 引き止める (keep from leaving)

More examples

先生は質問のある学生を廊下で引き止めました。sen sei wa shitsu mon no a ru gaku sei o rō ka de hi ki to me ma shi ta

In the hallway, the teacher kept a student who had a question from leaving.

Core concept

Describes keeping a person from leaving by making an appeal, starting a conversation, or otherwise holding their attention.

Common phrases

  • 客を引き止めるkyaku o hi ki to me ru

    keep a customer from leaving

  • 帰りかけた人を引き止めるkae ri ka ke ta hito o hi ki to me ru

    stop someone who is about to leave

Similar words

呼び止めるyobitomeru: To stop someone who is about to leave by speaking to them.
留めるtodomeru: To make a person remain in a place or situation.

Definition in Japanese

帰ろうとする人などに働きかけて、去らないようにする。kae rō to su ru hito na do ni hatara ki ka ke te sa ra na i yō ni su ru

Word origin

引き止める (hikitomeru) is formed from 引く (hiku, "pull") and 止める (tomeru, "stop"), with a figurative sense of making someone stay.

Usage tips

  • 引き止める (hikitomeru) can describe keeping a guest talking after a visit or asking a friend to stay longer, not only stopping someone at a doorway.

Other meanings

  • stopverb
  • hold backverb
  • detainverb

Opposites

  • 送り出すokuridasusend offverb

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