Japanese word

妬む

Pronunciation

Romajinetamu

Meaning

  • verbenvy

Example

彼は友達の成功を妬みます。kare wa tomo dachi no sei kō o neta mi ma su

He envies his friend's success.

Illustration for 妬む (envy)

More examples

他人を妬むのではなく、自分の努力を大切にしましょう。ta nin o neta mu no de wa na ku ji bun no do ryoku o tai setsu ni shi ma shō

Rather than envying others, let's value our own efforts.

Core concept

It focuses on resenting another person's advantage because it highlights what the envious person lacks, not merely admiring that advantage.

Common phrases

  • 人を妬むhito o neta mu

    envy someone

  • 人の成功を妬むhito no sei kō o neta mu

    envy someone's success

Similar words

羨むurayamu: To feel dissatisfied with what one has because another person has something desirable.
嫉むsonemu: To feel bitter about another person's success or good fortune.
羨望するsenbōsuru: To envy a person's success or qualities in a formal expression.

Definition in Japanese

他人の才能や成功などをうらやみ、それを素直に喜べず、憎らしく思うこと。ta nin no sai nō ya sei kō na do o u ra ya mi so re o su nao ni yoroko be zu niku ra shi ku omo u ko to

Word origin

The native Japanese verb 妬む (netamu, "to envy") derives from the older adjective 妬し (netashi, "envious"), which describes resentment at another person's good fortune.

Usage tips

  • English often distinguishes envy, wanting what another person has, from jealousy, fear of losing something one values, so 妬む (netamu) is usually introduced with envy rather than jealousy.

Other meanings

  • be jealous of ___verb
  • begrudgeverb

Related words

  • 妬みnetamienvynoun
  • 妬ましいnetamashiienviousi-adjective

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