Japanese word

勘弁

Pronunciation

Romajikanben

Meaning

  • noungive me a break

Example

これ以上は勘弁してください。ko re i jō wa kan ben shi te ku da sa i

Please give me a break.

Illustration for 勘弁 (give me a break)

More examples

今回は勘弁してもらえませんか。kon kai wa kan ben shi te mo ra e ma se n ka

Could you let me off this time?

Core concept

Signals that a situation has reached a limit and that the speaker wants the other person to stop or let the matter go.

Common phrases

  • 勘弁してくれkan ben shi te ku re

    give me a break

Similar words

容赦yōsha: Mercy or leniency that prevents a person from receiving punishment or harsh treatment.
堪忍kannin: Forbearance that allows a fault or an unpleasant situation to be accepted without complaint.
許しyurushi: An act of forgiving someone for a mistake or offense.

Definition in Japanese

限界を感じ、相手にそれ以上のことをせず見逃してほしいと求める気持ち。gen kai o kan ji ai te ni so re i jō no ko to o se zu mi noga shi te ho shi i to moto me ru ki mo chi

Word origin

勘弁 (kanben) is a Sino-Japanese formation from 勘 (kan, "judgment") and 弁 (ben, "discernment"), and the compound came to express pardon or being spared.

Usage tips

  • The phrase 勘弁してください (kanben shite kudasai) is more polite than the blunt 勘弁して (kanben shite), but both can express refusal, exasperation, or a request to be let off.

Other meanings

  • spare menoun
  • mercynoun

Related words

  • 勘弁するkanbensuruspareverb

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