French word

flatter

Pronunciation

IPA/flate/

Meaning

  • verbbutter up

Example

Il me flatte toujours.

He always butters me up.

Illustration for flatter (butter up)

More examples

Elle aime flatter les gens pour obtenir des faveurs.

She likes to flatter people to get favors.

Core concept

A layer of pleasing words placed on someone to win a favorable response, whether the praise is sincere or not.

Common phrases

  • flatter quelqu'un

    flatter someone

  • se flatter

    flatter oneself

  • flatter son ego

    stroke one's ego

Similar words

complimenter: To give someone brief praise for a good quality.
charmer: To win someone's liking through charming words or actions.

Definition in French

Employer des paroles flatteuses pour séduire ou obtenir une faveur, avec souvent une nuance d'insincérité.

Word origin

French flatter comes from Old French flater, originally meaning to stroke or caress, and developed a figurative sense of pleasing someone with words.

Usage tips

  • Flatter takes a direct object in French, as in flatter quelqu'un, while se flatter de means to take pride in or claim something.

Other meanings

  • praiseverb

Opposites

  • dénigrerdisparageverb
  • déprécierbelittleverb

Related words

  • flatterieflatterynoun
  • flatteurflatterernoun
  • flattéflatteredadjective

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