Spanish phrase
¿Te trato de ~?
Meaning
May I address you as ___?
When to use it
Asks permission to use a particular form of address. Used when confirming whether to use a formal title, a first name, or the familiar pronoun, polite and neutral.
Example dialogue
¿Te trato de usted o de tú?
Should I address you formally or informally?
Prefiero que me tutees, por favor.
I'd prefer that you use the informal you with me, please.